Stress and a JP

Ugh! let me tell you- I never thought trying to plan a simple vow and ring exchange with just her and I would be so difficult. I just got off the phone with one JP that we were talking to and she wants us to do a questionnaire, meet with her, write up an actual 100% ceremony for us to do. She writes it and gives us a copy of our ceremony in a bound book for us to keep (that I actually liked the idea of...) BUT she charges $400 just to do that...I think that is a little out of our price range. We aren't looking for anything fancy smancshy(SP). We aren't extravagant people. She wants to know our religious preference. what our relationship means to eachother, what our future holds, our thoughts on children, etc etc etc..Then she tells me. Oh by the way I am a minister not a justice of the peace and even if it is just the two of you I want to make sure it is 100% special and nice. Which is great..but $400 just for about a half hour? ugh...*sigh*