What really is an "abomination"

****DISCLAIMER**** I am not anti-religion at all. I was raised in a very religious family. I still go to church (to a UU church of course) I have no issue with people who believe in God and the Bible. I am merely qouting the discrepencies for the "pick and choose" people.
Thank you *****ALSO IF IT TRUELY IS YOUR RELIGIOUS CONVICTIONS THAT MAKE IT SO YOU CAN NOT VOTE YES I AM NOT SAYING YOU ARE WRONG AT ALL THIS IS AMERICA AND WE ALL HAVE THE RIGHT TO BELIEVE WHAT WE WANT. I AM MERELY POINTING OUT A FEW THINGS

So--- I hear all the time that gay marraige is an "abomination"....If we looked at every thing in the Bible that is considered an "abomination" wouldn't  people do these on a daily basis?

Lets see--

1) Cross dressing-- (I just don't feel like typing the entire scripture so I will abbreviate and give you what book it is from and all that) So does that mean those that must wear the "bro" (according to seinfield) are doing something considered an "abomination"?  DUETERONOMY 22:5

2) Lying- so..even those little white lies count don't they? PROVERBS 12:22

3) Justifying the wicked, condeming the just- so does that mean lawyers commit "abominations" on a daily basis? PROVERBS 17:5

(THESE NEXT ARE FROM LEVITICUS 11)
4) Eating animals that "chew the cud or them that divide the hoof".. so...does that mean eating cows, horse, moose, etc. mean you are commiting an "abomination"?

5) Eating the hare--so should rabbit hunting be banned?

6) eating the swine- SO does that mean eating pig shouldn't be allowed?

7) eating things without fins or scales is an "abomination"--so guess what should be out? LOBSTER, CLAMS, etc. oh wouldn't that suck?

8) What goes on all fours with paws-- so does that mean bear hunting should be banned too?

9) creeping things(the ferret, rat, weasel, turtle, etc)..oh no..so no turtle soup (yes some people eat turtles...)

10) the lizard, chamelean, SNAIL- oh no..no escargot!!!

11) Unclean things LEVITICUS 7:21

12) Cursing your mother or father is punishable by death--- SO does that count if you do it when you are not near them?? LEVITICUS 20:9 (which is just  three verses before the common qouted anti-gay message)

13) Never cut the hair on the side of your head or trimming the edges off your beard LEVITICUS 19:27..well i think everyone gets hair cuts and shave don't they??

14) Do not plant 2 types of seeds in your garden, or wear two blends of material in your clothing... Oh man....that sucks for the gardeners ...and the cotton/polyester blend...*sigh*

Well I'm sure you get the point.......Why pick and choose??? how is that fair?

Also- check out this video..this is probably one of the best pro-gay marraige videos I have ever seen. It does kind of make fun of things in the Bible so I am warning ahead of time!

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QNiqfRyoAyA